Twelve years after topping the charts with their 1998 duet “The Boy Is Mine,” Brandy and Monica remain friends. Monica shared photos of the two in Miami over Easter weekend with the caption: “WOW. We grown. Lol.”

Despite a rocky past, the singers get along and occasionally arrange playdates for their children.

“The ’90s were something different; we were 16 years old.”  “Now that I’m 29 and she’s 30, it’s totally different. We respect that we’re total opposites.”